"This friendship and love are too fictional,
People just keep trying to make them real.
It doesn't work."
The idea of love is drilled into our minds, through every fictional movie and tv shows we watch, through every romantic novel we read, through every picture made to look like love.
I did not develop love correctly, perhaps, everything felt tough, bleak, dramatic, volatile and bad. And every stable relationship of commitment and stability around me made me uneasy.
Generally, I believe the need to feel affection, chills and thrill of a relationship is valid and a winnable need, What's tragic is that it's often dismissed.
If you've never been in love or in a relationship, I'd hate to be the one breaking it to you but MAGIC FADES. It's a matter of time.
But that's where you discover what's real and what's not. No matter how good or bad it'll be for you, with time you'll realize your partner will be a mix of qualities and emotions like fun and boring, dull and exciting, weak and strong. The key to a right partner is something I can't give you, I can just advise on the basis of what I've read or seen, and that is -'these emotions and qualities will eventually fit with yours'.
It's just a matter of time.
People just keep trying to make them real.
It doesn't work."
The idea of love is drilled into our minds, through every fictional movie and tv shows we watch, through every romantic novel we read, through every picture made to look like love.
I did not develop love correctly, perhaps, everything felt tough, bleak, dramatic, volatile and bad. And every stable relationship of commitment and stability around me made me uneasy.
Generally, I believe the need to feel affection, chills and thrill of a relationship is valid and a winnable need, What's tragic is that it's often dismissed.
If you've never been in love or in a relationship, I'd hate to be the one breaking it to you but MAGIC FADES. It's a matter of time.
But that's where you discover what's real and what's not. No matter how good or bad it'll be for you, with time you'll realize your partner will be a mix of qualities and emotions like fun and boring, dull and exciting, weak and strong. The key to a right partner is something I can't give you, I can just advise on the basis of what I've read or seen, and that is -'these emotions and qualities will eventually fit with yours'.
It's just a matter of time.
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