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Grow into your Goals.

I don't have dreams, I have goals.  - Harvey Specter 

GOALS?


Why are goals so important? Why does everyone keep talking about goals?

Well, Goals help me proudly say-
"I know where I am going"


Are you the kind of person who likes to drift along and see what happens?

OR

Do you have a goal which is something you would like to happen in your life and are working towards it?


Setting goals is the most significant step and is quite difficult sometimes. But, believing you can accomplish the goal you have set may actually be the hardest part.

So I do this thing called "living the result" or "internalising the goal" before you have achieved it. And I do think it plays an important role in motivating you constantly to work towards your goal. Your imagination is what makes the journey towards the goal so beautiful.

The Goal should be clear in your mind, not a half hearted wish.
You must have belief in yourself and your ability to achieve the ends desired.

Ever loved someone so much, you would do anything for them? Yeah, well make that someone yourself and do whatever the hell you want.

Have a positive self-esteem and fully expect to achieve the goals.
But do not overdo this part. EXPECTATIONS HURT!
So a solution to this might be a concept called "prudence concept" that we study in accountancy which states that- Provide for all possible losses.
Simply- Hope for the best, Be prepared for the worst.


Lastly, Have self-discipline, stick to your goals for as long as you can. 



I can't conclude this post without mentioning my biggest inspiration for this post-
HARVEY SPECTER (Suits character)

His quotes from the show:

  • Work until you no longer have to introduce yourself.
  • That's the difference between you and me, you wanna lose small, I wanna win big.
  • The only time success comes before work is in the dictionary.
  • Winners don't make excuses.
  • Don't play the odds, Play the man.
  • When you’re backed against the wall, break the goddamn thing down.
  • I don’t get lucky. I make my own luck.
  • (best one) What are your choices when someone puts a gun to your head? You take the gun, or you pull out a bigger one. Or, you call their bluff. Or, you do any of a hundred and forty-six different things.
 

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